Dating sites for dominent and submissives
You want to reach as wide and audience as possible, so join and create a free profile on at least two specifically kink related personal ad sites surprised at how effective a vanilla site can be).
Once you have completed your profile, browse through some of the other advertisements specific to your area to get a feel for who's out there and what they are looking for.
This community encourages monogamy and also helps you to achieve those taboo experiences that you may desire.
We have developed a proven fundamental plan for you to follow to help you achieve D/s-M dynamics.
On line services like these are discrete and reliable, allow the lifestyle, but do your best. When the picture is reasonably clear, write it down.
Are you looking for a long-term relationship or a one-off /casual play partner? Once you have a pretty good idea of what sort of relationship you're looking for, you can start to prepare yourself for it.
Just before I go though, a few points about first time meeting safety - particularly for the ladies: (Author unknown, if you are the author, or know who the author is, please contact Me so that appropriate acknowledgement for this article can be given, in the interim, this is assumed to be public domain) Join us in the Asj Online Members Only Community Membership in the Asj Online Community provides you with additional lifestyle resources, including Chat, Blogs, Forums, Profiles and more!
However, before you dash off to look up BDSM Clubs in the yellow pages, be aware that many of the folk who attend such events are pretty much 'out there' as far as their sexual proclivities are concerned, and consequently their sense of discretion may not be what you would hope it to be.
Step 3 - Taking it further Okay, so your profile is complete and you just have to sit back and wait for the replies to roll in right? You must also reply to other people's ads - submissives in particular seem to feel that they ought not 'make the first move', but if the Dominants didn't want replies they wouldn't have placed the ad in the first place.
Someone has to get this thing going, and by responding to ads as well as waiting for others to reply to yours, you double your chances of connecting with the right person.
These dynamics are always used in a safe, sane and consensual manner.
D/s-M stands out as a lifestyle that focusses on mindfulness as well as sustainability.